Breaking up is never easy, even if you are the one that wants to end the relationship. It can be a time of deep emotional pain, conflicting emotions and whether you perpetrated the break up or not both partners will go through some sort of grieving process, for some it may take years to get over, but it doesn’t have to be that way and neither does it have to be a period of fighting, pain and emotional turmoil as you and your partner negotiate the tricky and painful process of separating your lives and moving on. .
With the right, help, advice and guidance breaking up can handled healthily and civilly and it doesn’t necessarily need to take years to recover emotionally from the pain, rejection and sadness that inevitably accompanies a broken heart and the end of a relationship. That’s not to say it won’t hurt but many common mistakes and emotional minefields and unnecessary financial hardship can be avoided if you consciously choose not to fall into the trap of turning your break-up into a battlefield. You have a choice when a relationship ends, you can let it define your life and sink into a morass of anger, bitterness, victimhood and sadness or you can resolve to work to get over the pain of the break up and move on to a happier and healthier life.
Theta healing can help eliminate beliefs you may have that block your ability to process painful emotions that will inevitably come up through this difficult stage. A course of Theta Healing can help you move towards a new life more easily and with less pain, help your regain your confidence, understand what went wrong, help your children make the transition without dragging them into the break-up and causing them any more trauma than they need to endure. It can help you understand why you chose that particular partner in the first place and face the future with hope and confidence that your next romantic relationship will be successful and lead to happiness.
Despite most people saying they are determined to make their separation amicable as possible, even when both want the relationship to end, the dissolution of a relationship can and often does quickly disintegrate into a battlefield. How you handle the break up will impact everyone around you, especially your ex-partner and your children if you have them.
It can be terrifying when a relationship ends and people often lash out and attack, often using the children as weapons to attack their partners, especially if they feel they are the wronged party, this can be especially damaging to the children and can have a life-long impact psychologically on the children.
One of the biggest mistake couples make when divorcing is to immediately consult a lawyer. A period of emotional cooling off is advisable before you start negotiating about who takes the dog, and who keeps the DVD collection. Lawyers are quick to jump in and oftentimes create unnecessarily conflict between the two divorcing couples yet in many cases where divorce is inevitable much of the separation can be handled by the couple themselves without incurring extortionate legal fees or stress. Divorce is the separation of assets, the negotiation of a new contract (the decree absolute) and ultimately, if couples can’t agree between them they will be the ones suffering because they will incur unnecessary legal bills, emotional stress and a judge will decide and where children are involved it could mean that the children suffer in unnecessary custody battles.
If a couple can separate the emotions from the actual divorce itself the worst and most common battles can be avoided and costs can be kept to a minimum. One of the most important thing is a lawyer is not your therapist. They all keep tissues in their office but do you really want to pay £300-£600 an hour to cry to someone who is not a trained emotional counsellor or therapist? Use a lawyer on for the most necessary parts of the negotiation but if you are sensible a Decree Absolute can be obtained online at minimal cost. It may be more worthwhile to consult an accountant or financial advisor than a lawyer when sorting out the financial settlement.
There is often a terrible feeling of failure that the relationship has turned sour, that you haven’t been able to make it work, or that you chose badly in the first place. Sometimes, in order to make us feel better about ourselves we blame the other and then make ourselves the victim and ultimately become bitter which keeps us stuck in a place of anger and resentment and is no way to go forward in life and the person that suffers the most is ultimately you if your whole life is driven by hatred, resentment and anger towards your ex partner.
Hatred and bitterness are extremely unattractive traits and will eventually drive away even the most sympathetic and supportive friends and family members and you and your children will suffer, often for years and always unnecessarily. Hatred and bitterness can also ultimately damage you physically and emotionally, it shows in your face, in your body language in the language you choose, your life will begin to reflect the anger and bitterness you feel. The best thing you can do for is determine to move on and build a new life for yourself. It is rare for someone to be able to get over the end of a long term relationship without some sort of professional help, and Theta healing can often help you move much faster than conventional therapies.
How Theta Healing Can Help
The reality is that we often choose our partners for unconscious reasons. Often we are driven by unconscious beliefs that we don’t even know we have on a conscious level Theta healing can help you reveal and discover the beliefs that led you to choose the partner you did, or why you keep choosing the same type of person and always replay the same relationships over and over again. Until we understand what drives us and why we are attracted to people that are not good for us then we are doomed to repeat the same patterns. Theta healing can help uncover, release and reprogramme our believes and patterns which can help us let go of our past and we won’t be doomed to chose the same type of partner next time.
Theta Healing can help us accept the end of the relationship, let go of emotional attachments and ties to our ex-partner, help us regain our confidence and self-belief and get over the painful emotions and avoid the common pitfalls and traps that people succumb to when getting divorced or ending long term relationships. Theta can help us move on without feeling hatred and bitterness. It can help us feel strong and confident about the future, treat ourselves and our ex with civility and respect and an understanding that not every relationship is meant to last forever and that everyone, especially you and even your ex, is entitled to live a life filled with joy, love and happiness.
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